When I think of the word strategy, I think about making plans. I was a teacher for thirteen years. As a matter of fact, I teach CCD (Catholic for Sunday School) every other Saturday. I had a plan for every minute of my time from the moment I walked into the school building. That didn’t mean no down time. Part of my plan was to pour myself a cup of coffee and drink it while I sorted my mail and chatted with teacher friends before school. But I came in early to make sure I had that time.
I planned every field trip I took my students on, all the way to the point of color coding their groups for the chaperones, and giving each chaperone a student list which had been color coded. If an emergency were to happen and I were somehow incapacitated , I wanted whichever chaperone was a “born leader” to have the means to be able to take over.
I planned every lesson in the scheduled time. That took some creativity the week of the Christmas show. Sometimes I had to do a Science of Social Studies lesson which incorporated Math or English so that I knew every subject had the alloted time for the day, even if the lesson was doing “double duty”.
Hello. My name is Helen at Random Musings, and I am a planner.
Planning and strategy are good. While most parents on my field trips thought I over did the roster, there was always the nervous or over protective parent who would approach me, see my color coded day (including all children with mailing labels with the schools address and phone number on their chests. I told the kids it was so if they got lost, whoever found them could mail them back to school…), smile with relief and walk away.
But my own planning and strategy were never enough to totally rely on. There was always the heartfelt question from a child, unannounced assembly by the principal, or chaperone who wasn’t where they were told to meet the group. At those times, my only strategy was to say aloud, or in my heart “Oh Holy Spirit, help!”. Not the most eloquent of prayers, but the Holy Spirit never let me down.
Every field trip during my teaching career ended with every child and chaperone on the bus, and the bus arrived before dismissal. ( I planned lightly for the return time after a field trip, knowing that most chaperones will request that their child be dismissed early so that they don’t have to come back in an hour or ninety minutes. My answer was always that these things must be handled in the office, which usually replied “okey dokey”.)
Every lesson got taught eventually, even if I had to stop and answer a “Holy Spirit Question”. What’s a “Holy Spirit Question”? That’s a question a child asks that is important yet delicate and inspires me to utter “Holy Spirit, help!”
My favorite is the wide eyed child asking if the world will ever end. I remember thinking this topic was not small child appropriate and asking the Holy Spirit for help. The next thing I knew, I was asking the child if he loves Jesus. This sweet child was surprised by this question. Who wouldn’t love Jesus? After he responded yes, I heard myself say something along the lines of “Then the end of the world is a happy day for you, because Jesus is coming back that day to rescue those of us who love Him from all the sin, pain, and hardship here. You will be SO happy to see Him!”. The child then asked why the movies make the end of the world seem so scary, and again, I heard my voice say “What do you think it will be like for those who love don’t love Jesus?” The child’s eyes widened. ”That’s why it seems scary to some. They don’t understand that Jesus loves them, and they can come to Him and learn to love Him before He returns, and change that day from a fearsome one to a joyful one. But YOU love Him (I then pointed to various students and said “and you, and you, and you, right?”). So for you, it will be a happy day. Don’t be afraid.” Those words were not part of my plans or strategy. I know they didn’t come from me, because they poured out immediately after my prayer. I don’t even remember having TIME to think.
I think planning and strategy are good. But one can’t depend on it. When the best laid plans are somehow interfered with, the Holy Spirit is faithful and can be relied upon. (I know. Years ago when I was taking care of my mom, I should have done more depending on Him and less planning. Or at least not freaked out when plans failed. So I guess this is still an area with much room for growth in my personal life…)
This post is part of Peter Pollock’s One Word Blog Carnival. Today’s word is strategy.

Helen, thank you for sharing. As another teacher I could truly relate to your story. The Holy Spirit questions were my favorites! I truly love them and I admire any teacher who has the wisdom to take a pause and let the Holy Spirit rule! Blessings to you!
Helen, although I have teaching experience, I’ve never handled small children, only teenager and older. And I am a compulsive planner, and God has been working in my life regarding that…
I loved the stories you shared, mainly the last one when the kid asked about the end of the world.
Thank you for sharing!
I think planning and strategy are good. But one can’t depend on it. – true. Once we start relying on plans and strategies, something always has to go wrong and we are left trying to figure out how to keep ourselves from drowning.
You obviously have the gift of organization. It is not one I share with you. Even in your gift I’m encouraged to hear you say that in the end, you and all of us rely on God. Being part of encouraging children to know God and feeding their spirit is one that will see you highly lifted in the believer’s eyes and in Gods’ house…
Your gift is special, and I do wish I had more of planning built into me. Now that we are retired, we often just “wing it.” My daughter taught special needs children, and she had every 15 minutes accounted for. During a visit we went to her class room and could see her black board with the schedule so that all the assistances knew what was happening for that day.
You certainly did give that sweet child excellent answers to calm her spirit. Holy Spirit answers to prayer are the best kind.
Your post just FILLS me with thoughts!
Coming in early to have adequate time is such an important habit! I’ve realized that if I really want good morning time with God, it means staying on top of things all evening so I get to bed at a reasonable hour. It’s a lesson I seem to need to keep relearning.
I LOVE your simple prayer. How very perfect. I think you’ve never felt let down by the Holy Spirit because He can’t help but honor such a pure and heartfelt prayer.
And my very favorite is the heartfelt question from a child during assembly. Perhaps the Holy Spirit is so gentle with your prayer because of your heart for those dear little ones. You win my heart too, Helen. ♥
But I came in early to make sure I had that time.
(Oops! I didn’t mean to leave that last line behind …)
You are one organized person!!! I’m filled with good intentions and do OK for a while, and then become side-tracked and lacking in follow-through. God is so kind… He breaks into my goofy messes and His strategies manage to keep me useful.